in with the new. Nature abhors a vacuum, they say, and I have found this to be true. I have had to clear out an abusive, mentally ill bullshit artist from my life, and once I let them go, I found a new friend in the making. I'll be more careful this time, though!
It's about boundaries and their lack; the loser I let go has none! Over 40, she's happy lusting after 18 year old schoolboys on Skype, engaging in inappropriate behaviour with them online, and arranging to meet them in 'the school holidays'. Yeah, I thought so too, so I fronted her, told her I was uncomfortable with her being in contact with a schoolboy ("HE contacted ME" was the first reaction) and that it made her a paedophile in my eyes. Yeah, I'm a bit coy about speaking out, me.
It went down like a turd in a fruit salad. Can't think why ;)
Boundaries. What IS and IS NOT acceptable. I have a very hard line on some things, but you know what? If you don't stand for something, you'll stand for anything.
Amazing
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